My Lovely Child,
When I get old, I hope you understand and have patience with me. In case I break a plate, or spill soup on the table because I’m losing my eyesight, I hope you don’t yell at me. Older people are sensitive… always having self-pity when you yell.
When my hearing gets worse and I can’t hear what you’re saying, I hope you don’t call me “DEAF!” please repeat what you said or write it down. I’m sorry, my child… I’m getting older.
When my knees get weaker, I hope you have the patience to help me get up. Like how I use to help you while you were little, learning how to walk. Please bear with me.
When I keep repeating myself like a broken record, I hope you just keep listening to me. Please don’t make fun of me, or get sick of listening to me. Do you remember when you were little and you wanted a doll and a balloon? You repeated yourself over and over until you got what you wanted.
…Please also pardon my smell. I smell like an old person. Please don’t force me to shower. My body is weak. Old people get sick easily when they’re cold. I hope I don’t gross you out. Do you remember when you were little? I use to chase you around because you didn’t want to shower.
I hope you can be patient with me when I’m always cranky; it’s all part of getting old. You’ll understand when you’re older. And if you have spare time, I hope we can talk even for a few minutes. I’m always all by myself all the time and have no one to talk to. I know you’re busy with work. Even if you’re not interested in my stories, please have time for me. Do you remember when you were little? I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear and batman.
When the time comes and I get ill and bedridden, I hope you have the patience to take care of me. I’m sorry, if I accidentally wet the bed or make a mess. I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life. I’m not going to last much longer, anyway.
When the time of death comes, I hope you hold my hand and give me the strength to face death. And don’t worry… When I finally meet our creator I will whisper in his ear to BLESS you because you loved your Mom and Dad.
Thank you so much for your care. We love you.
With much love,
Mom and Dad
I just wanted to share this with y'all...Hope you learn from it.Thanks. J
This is sweet & touching. Thanks for sharing Ruqi!
ReplyDeleteP.S: We do indeed need to look after our parents @ their old age whether we like it or not, because if not for them we will not be where we are today.
Thanks so much,i glad you liked it.Hope you learn from it...;)
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